RISE A Coaching and Support Community for Women in the Messy Middle of Relationship Change

RISE:
A Coaching and Support Community for Women in the Messy Middle of Relationship Change

You’re not crazy. You’re not too much.
You’re just holding too much—and it’s time for that to change.

You’re here because your relationship hasn’t been going well.

Maybe your partner is trying—but not getting it.
Maybe he’s oblivious. Or defensive. Or withdrawn.
Maybe he’s started doing “the work” and using new language… but something still doesn’t feel safe or stable.
Or maybe… you’ve gone first.
You’ve awakened. You see the patterns now. You feel the ache of what’s missing—and the weight of trying to fix it alone.

RISE is for women in exactly that space.
The in-between. The limbo.
The place where love and frustration live side by side.
The place where you’re still in the relationship, but you don’t know how much longer you can keep doing it like this.

What RISE Means

It’s a word intended to describe the trajectory of your journey, and hopefully that of your relationship, too. It’s also an acronym.

R – Renewal & Restoration
You may be burned out or emotionally shut down—but something in you still wants to believe something beautiful is possible.
Not just in your relationship–but also in you.

I – Insight & Inspiration
You’ll learn to see patterns clearly—without shame or judgment. You’ll better understand yourself and the man in your life, no matter where he is in his journey.

S – Support & Seeing
You’ll be surrounded by women who are also in the middle of it—not experts, not spectators. Just real women walking with you, offering presence and truth.

E – Encouragement & Empowerment
Not hype. Not blame. Not toxic positivity. Just real strength, real tools, and the kind of grounded confidence that helps you make hard decisions with peace.

I never set out to create something for women.

My work has always been focused on helping men get unstuck—especially in relationships that feel broken, cold, distant, or emotionally gridlocked.

But over the years, something surprising and beautiful started to happen…

Women kept reaching out.

Sometimes, it was the wife or partner of a man I was working with, wanting clarity and insight.
Other times, it was a woman who had discovered my message first—and was aching for her partner to understand.

They’d say things like:

“This is the first time I feel like a man actually understands what I’ve been trying to say for years.”
“I cried reading this—I feel so seen.”
“How do I get him to listen to this?”
“Is there something like what you do—for me?”

They weren’t looking for therapy or blame. They were looking for guidance, truth, and a space to breathe.

Sometimes, they were just looking for a secret decoder ring—some way to understand the man they love without losing themselves in the process.

And the truth is—I get it.

I get you.

I get the woman who’s done her own work and is tired of carrying the emotional weight of two people.

I get the woman who’s still hopeful—but also honest about how deeply weary she’s become.

And I get the woman who’s watching her partner try—kind of.

Or maybe a lot—but still not in a way that helps her feel safe, held, or hopeful.

That’s why I created RISE.

RISE is a private, coaching-centered community for women navigating uncertain, difficult, or changing relational terrain.

It’s for women who are:

  • Holding the tension of “should I stay or should I go?”

  • Trying to stop being the only emotional leader in the relationship

  • Unsure whether their partner is really growing—or just learning better language

  • Craving peace and clarity, but not at the cost of their own truth

It takes enormous strength to go first—especially as a woman.

Not because you’re incapable.
But because when you go first, you often get punished for it, don’t you?

You try to share what’s going on for you and… He gets defensive. He resists. He withholds. He collapses. He storms. He distances.
And once again… you’re left holding the emotional burden for both of you.

But you see something now.
You feel the pull of freedom and healing.
And while part of you wants to run, or collapse, another part wonders:

What if I could rise?

What if we could rise?

RISE is that space.

A space to be deeply seen and supported.
A space to gather strength and insight.
A space to end codependent patterns without abandoning connection.
A space to grow strong enough to lead without losing yourself—and wise enough to know when to stay, when to pause, and when to go.

You don’t need to play small, shut down, or stay stuck.
But you also don’t have to burn it all down to find peace.
I believe you have a vital role to play in your man’s life and that whether you choose to or not, your wholeness matters. You deserve support and encouragement and a path to be the best version of yourself, no matter what happens.

Who Is RISE For?

1. The Woman Going First

A common complaint among women is, “I’ve been trying to tell you this for years!” and it can be really exasperating to feel like you’re not getting through, or worse, that after years of doing so without effect, a guy like me seems to suddenly make all sorts of sense to your fella.

It’s not you! You’re not wrong. You were probably right about a lot of things and way before anyone else.

You’re the one who sees it.
You’ve grown. You’ve tried. You’ve read. You’ve begged. You’ve waited.
And you’re carrying so much of the weight, you barely recognize yourself anymore.

You want to stop being resentful without abandoning your needs.
You want to feel safe and powerful again—without hardening your heart.

And maybe most of all… you want to feel seen.

RISE is where you’ll finally be able to experience that, not just by women who get you but by a man who does also–and one who can offer that to you while also understanding your man and what he sees, feels, and experiences that you don’t get (yet).

2. The Partner of a Man in Masterful Men (or Another Growth Process)

Your man is on, or starting a growth journey, and you’re trying to figure out what that means for you.

  • You’re hopeful but skeptical.
  • You’ve heard this kind of thing before.
  • You want to support him—but you don’t want to mother him.
  • You want to believe, but trust doesn’t rebuild itself on promises alone.
  • You want to know from whom he is getting his insights and how they may impact you.

RISE offers transparency, clarity, and calm insight so you can see what he’s learning, understand the shifts, and decide what you’re ready for without pressure.

What’s Included

  • Bi-Monthly Group Coaching Calls
    Real, interactive conversations where we unpack questions, offer insight, and support you with clarity and care. Hosted by me. Recorded for replay.

  • Private Online Community
    A respectful, drama-free zone for sharing, support, and sisterhood—guided by principle, not performance.

  • The Secret Decoder Ring
    Regular insights from me to help you understand what’s actually going on beneath the surface—so you can stop taking it personally, stop over-functioning, and start seeing clearly.

  • Resource Library
    Practical, digestible tools to help you:

    • Stay grounded in conflict

    • Understand masculine shutdown and withdrawal

    • Communicate with clarity, not control

    • Rebuild emotional safety—starting with yourself

  • Course Access (for Partners of Masterful Men Clients)
    If your partner is enrolled in Masterful Men, you’ll get complimentary access to the same core coursework (not his responses)—so you can track alongside without stepping into his private process.

Investment

  • RISE Membership: $97/month
    Includes group coaching, community access, resource library, and guidance from me. Cancel anytime.

This Is Your Space, Too

Whether your partner is trying—or not trying at all…
Whether you’re hanging on—or halfway out the door…
Whether you’re full of love, full of pain, or full of questions—

RISE is for you.

You’re not crazy.
You’re not too much.
And you don’t have to carry it all anymore.

You don’t have to become hard to be strong.
You don’t have to abandon love to find peace.

Join the Waiting List

I’m opening the first wave of RISE soon.
Spots will be limited to keep this space personal, sacred, and meaningful.

If this feels like what you’ve been looking for—or didn’t even know you needed—
add your name below.

No pressure. No performance.
Just an open door.